Monday, April 17, 2017

Game Stuff: Women Who Are Tens

The attraction is as obvious as it is understandable.  Tens are after all...Tens.  They are...or at least were exceedingly rare.  They possess the physical traits that you are biologically programmed to find intensely desirable.

Cataline understands your are young and stupid.  

Cataline himself was the same at one time.

But generally speaking the minus side outweighs the plus.

Here is somebody else who should have listened to me.

He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.

“Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of themselves,” he says. “Eventually, I was dreading getting dinner with them because they couldn’t carry a conversation.”

According to new research, Rochkind’s ideas about sexy bikini babes are correct. A multipart study from Harvard University, University of La Verne and Santa Clara University researchers found that beautiful people are more likely to be involved in unstable relationships. In one part, the researchers looked at the top 20 actresses on IMDb and found that they tend to have rocky marriages. 

Life on the Easy setting is no life at all.

You don't develop the skills necessary to survive.  When you coast through life, from childhood on and everyone you've ever met does favors for you just because you smiled at them, you are setting yourself up for the ultimate Long Game Fail.

Here is the upside to the Tens for the player.  If you can master Day Game you will have your pick of them.  It was rare enough for a man to try an pick up one them back in dim mists of Cataline's youth.  Most men were too intimidated to try.  Yes, you get shot down by most of them but the kill ratio of shoot down to pickup was drastically more favorable than it was when you were trying to net Sevens and Eights. They get approached a lot less so there defenses just aren't as tight.

That was how it was fifteen years ago, however, in this day and age of Tinder, a day time pickup on a Ten is all but unheard of among the Tens.  The personal attention they are receiving from you is nearly intoxicating for them.

The problem with Tens is this, "what are you getting?"

If you have ever seen the Kim Kardashian sex tape, then you have pretty good idea of just how bad Tens are in bed.  The carnal effort expended on their part is is minimal at best.  This is my personal experience talking here.  It's not that they are bad in bed, its just that having landed a Ten, is reward enough for you, so far as the Ten in question is concerned.  She has done her part and gotten undressed for you.  She will continue to look pretty for you while in bed but really, that is all that is going to happen here.  Just accept it.

Now when you are talking short term relationship that may be good enough for tonight.  The problem is long term.  The only people skills that Ten's have are entirely based on their looks.  The downside to that is obvious:

Looks. Don't. Last.

And when their looks fade, it's tragic.  They keep doing their cute if pushy cheerleader routine well past it's sell by date because they simply don't know what else to do.

Character is built by suffering.  And the truth is they just don't suffer enough when their character is being formed. 


jaericho said...

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

I always smile when I hear that song.

Kentucky Headhunter said...

There was a commenter at Dalrock's or Rollo's who opined that Tinder had been great for Alphas for actually bad for "10"s. His thinking was that Tinder gave Alphas ready access to a great volume of 6's and above who were DTF in this next 30-60 minutes, so "10"s were having to put out a lot sooner/more if they wanted to keep the Alpha's attention. He had a good line about "10's having to get down on all fours right next the 6's", in order to compete.

Who wants to come home to an ugly woman, let alone have sex with her?

LBD said...

Speaking as a proud Uglo-American woman, Kentucky Headhunter, we are pleasant people with good housekeeping skills. We weren't able to coast on looks so we developed abilities to talk intelligently, to cook good food, and generally make life more pleasant for ourselves and those around us. That's why my husband of 35 years is a happy guy with low stress. Perhaps you can find a "10" with these qualities--good luck to you.

Cataline Sergius said...

@Kentucky Headhunter

So now I'm famous enough to plagiarized, eh?

I can't help but be pleased...and annoyed.